How To Be A Good Kisser - A Short Guide

By: Alphonso Sirtle...


When you are dating someone that you feel may be the one for you, a special emotional connection appears. If you want to take the incipient attraction further, being a good kisser is the best card you want to use. Kissing is not complicated at all. But when you think you met that special someone, your kisses must be special, too. Why? Because it will swipe you off your feet when your boiling heart connects with another and a perfect kiss seals your relationship.

During the first dates, there are problems that can occur. One of them is related to nervousness, so this can be a real enemy when you try to kiss the girl or the boy you like. When you two get down to kissing, a level of comfort is necessary. Otherwise, you will become unable to feel the pleasure that is drawn from a kiss with the person you feel you are falling in love with. So, an important rule is to relax and to provide your partner, too, with the level of comfort you want for yourself.

Did you ever see in movies those kisses that seem that never end? Did you ever fantasize of being entangled in such a kiss? If your answer is yes, then read carefully. Choose the proper environment for your special kiss. It will be quite uncomfortable and annoying to be interrupted all the time by people, noises or other things, while you are trying to get lost in a kiss. Being too conscious of the outside world will ruin all your mood and your partner�s as well. So, public spaces are out when it comes to kisses that can take your breath away. After finding the perfect place, be ready to get out of this world and think only about the kiss.

Kissing requires a little bit of imagination from your part. You must not only focus on the lips, you can kiss the closed eyes, the cheeks, the ears, the neck. By planting little kisses on your partner�s skin, you will let the tension build up and the pleasure will come in waves. Be tender, but do not forget to speed up the pace from time to time, as well as the pressure. Your partner will feel great and you will, too.

Kissing is like dancing. A certain rhythm and pace makes it more interesting. Start slowly, then try to impose a different rhythm, by listening to the signals from your body and your partner�s body. Even if you feel reluctant to interrupt the kiss, be aware that you both must breathe from time to time. This rhythm should not be exhausting, except in a good way. Use pauses to look into your partner�s eyes, let your souls connect as your lips connect during the kiss. Remember, rhythm is important.

In order to make your kisses more intense, try to follow this simple guide. The results will make you thrilled and you will be able to offer pleasure to your partner and to find pleasure for yourself.


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